- Acknowledge the perception
This is often the scary step of admitting that we know of our flaw, and that we are aware of the impact on others.
- Reveal the intention you have
State clearly that you want to be seen differently, and that you are committed to growing in your ability in the identified area.
- Ask for compassion and give self-compassion
As human beings we are perfect and flawed at the same time, and there is huge grace in allowing ourselves to be seen fully, even if it means imperfectly (by self and others).
- Offer continued steady progress
This is where we commit to continued work matching our ideal to our real selves in partnership, and we name how we are practicing to be.
- Ask for future feedback
Although this is hard, because we often tell ourselves privately that we will never misstep again, we do, so it makes sense to ask people we work with to let us know of we accidentally misstep in the future.
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